Spousal rape is not a wedge issue. It is sickening and a direct betrayal of any vow taken when marrying.
There are no-brainer issues and then there are issues that show humanity is missing from someone’s brain, heart and soul.
Approval of House Bill 16, a non-partisan proposal that would get rid of an arcane provision of Ohio law that protects spouses from prosecution against rape, unless the raping spouse threatened force or the couple lives in separate homes, should have been a no-brainer.
It was something else thanks to Rep. Bill Dean, R-Xenia, being the sole “no” vote during Wednesday’s House session.
First let me thank Rep. Jessica Miranda, D-Forest Park, and Rep. Brett Hillyer, R-Uhrichsville, for sponsoring the bill that corrects a sinful law that allows married women to be treated like property that can be used, abused and subjugated to their spouse’s whims.
What will the bill do?
The bill which next heads to the Ohio Senate would remove the marital exception for sexual battery and other sex crimes.
Spouses — I will call them most likely wives — will be able to testify against their partner — let’s call them most likely husbands — in court cases.
Marriage does not just mean husband and wife and “spouses” are not just men and women.
Men can be raped by women, men and those of other gender identities, but the spouse who is statistically more likely to rape is the husband. About 14 percent of married women say they have been raped by their spouse, according to data included in a Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network.
Thanks goes to the 75 of 99 House members who supported the measure — Republicans and Democrats — that returns humanity to married rape victims regardless of gender.
But let’s cast an eye of criticism on Rep. Bill Dean, R-Xenia, the sole “no” vote on the bill and openly wonder where the other 23 members who did not vote on the measure were.
There are likely legitimate reasons to be absent, but what a vote not to show up for.
A vote for spousal rape
Dean’s stance on rape should come as little surprise. He is among the small band of woefully misinformed Ohio lawmakers who after voters overwhelmingly approved abortion rights in November, announced a campaign to strip the judicial branch of its constitutional right to rule on cases involving abortion access.
His rationale for voting in favor on wife rape is disgraceful, disrespectful, disgusting and equally obtuse.
“I personally don’t believe that a man, if he’s married and has physical relations with his wife, that can be considered rape,” Dean told the USA TODAY Network Ohio Bureau after the vote. “I also know that if they’re living apart or they’re divorced and stuff, sure, that’d be rape. I think this law can be used as a wedge between husband and wife and families and a husband and wife’s relationship.”
Spousal rape is not a wedge issue. It is sickening and a direct betrayal of any vow taken when getting married.
There is no love. There is no honor. There is no cherishing.
The is only control, dominance and savagery.
This is appalling.
I covered Xenia for several years during my time as a reporter. I know Dean’s corrosive views on rape do not represent Xenia husbands or Xenia wives. They definitely do not represent the views of the Xenia police department I remember. It after all was one of the first in the state to aggressively pursue men who prey on children on the internet.
Dean’s views are against human decency. Ohio and 10 other states are the only ones with such laws still remaining.
Here’s the thing: wives are not property, and no human being has the right to violate the humanity of another person.
Rape is rape is rape. It does not matter if you are legally bound to the perpetrator or not.
It is offensive but sadly not shocking that an Ohio lawmaker carries these despicable and hateful views. The ideal that others share them should turn all of our stomachs.
Luckily 75 representatives know what rape is.
Let’s hope Ohio’s senators do as well.
