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7 Iconic TV Dads Who Still Live Rent-Free in Our Hearts

In Honor of Father’s Day, We Salute the Fictional Fathers Who Raised Us Too

Father’s Day isn’t just about biological dads — it’s about the father figures who shaped us, guided us, and made us laugh through the screen. From classic sitcoms to modern dramas, Black TV dads have served up everything from wisdom and warmth to stern discipline and comedic gold.

Whether they were setting boundaries like James Evans Sr., dropping truth bombs like Uncle Phil, or balancing therapy and fatherhood like Randall Pearson, these characters left an undeniable impact. So in honor of Father’s Day, here are seven unforgettable Black TV dads who raised generations — even if they were fictional.

1. James Evans Sr.Good Times

Tough but tender, James Evans Sr. (John Amos) laid the blueprint for the Black working-class dad. Always hustling to provide for his family, he ruled with discipline, pride, and the occasional joke. His presence was the backbone of Good Times — and his sudden death in Season 4 left a lasting void in Black television history.

2. Uncle PhilThe Fresh Prince of Bel-Air

Judge Philip Banks (James Avery) wasn’t just Will’s uncle — he was the heart and foundation of the Banks household. Rich in wisdom and compassion, Uncle Phil delivered fatherhood with a side of courtroom logic and the occasional dad dance. His legendary hug with Will after “Why don’t he want me, man?” still gets us every time.

3. Carl WinslowFamily Matters

Carl Winslow (Reginald VelJohnson) was a Chicago cop with a soft heart and a short fuse. Whether clashing with Urkel or guiding his kids through teen troubles, Carl embodied a relatable, present, and principled father. He may have yelled a lot, but he never stopped showing up.

4. Bernie McCulloughThe Bernie Mac Show

Bernie Mac wasn’t your typical TV dad. He didn’t ask to be one — he stepped up. Taking in his sister’s three kids while juggling a rising comedy career, Bernie ruled with sarcasm, tough love, and unmatched side-eyes. Inspired by Bernie Mac’s real life, the show reminded us that family is about showing up, not just sharing DNA.

5. Andre “Dre” JohnsonBlack-ish

Dre Johnson (Anthony Anderson) had opinions, jokes, and cultural commentary for days. A marketing exec raising five kids in a mostly white suburb, Dre constantly battled assimilation while making sure his kids stayed grounded in their Blackness. Equal parts ridiculous and righteous, Dre made Black parenthood look both chaotic and beautiful.

6. Randall PearsonThis Is Us

Randall Pearson (Sterling K. Brown) wasn’t just a dad — he was a cycle-breaker. From confronting trauma to raising daughters with his wife Beth, Randall showed that strength and vulnerability can coexist. With therapy sessions and family talks, he gave us the emotional fatherhood blueprint we didn’t know we needed.

7. Eric EdwardsForever

The cool, laid-back newcomer on the list, Eric Edwards (Wood Harris) from Forever was the kind of dad who gave room to grow but knew when to step in. From cringey-but-necessary “talks” to real support, he was a modern father figure who kept it real — and sometimes too real — with his sons.

Deadly Ambush on State Leaders

Minnesota Lawmaker Melissa Hortman Killed in Political Attack; State Sen. John Hoffman Injured

Minnesota is reeling after a shocking act of political violence left one lawmaker dead and another critically wounded.

State Rep. Melissa Hortman and her husband, Mark, were shot and killed early Saturday in what Governor Tim Walz called a “politically-motivated assassination.” Just miles away, State Sen. John Hoffman and his wife, Yvette, were also gunned down in their home and rushed into surgery. Both are expected to survive.

Authorities say the gunman posed as a police officer, wearing a badge, vest, and carrying a Taser and other law enforcement-style gear. The attacks took place in Champlin and Brooklyn Park, two suburbs just north of Minneapolis.

Minnesota lawmaker Melissa Hortman killed, State Sen. John Hoffman wounded in 'targeted political violence'
Minnesota lawmaker Melissa Hortman killed, State Sen. John Hoffman wounded in ‘targeted political violence’, ABC News

According to Drew Evans, Superintendent of the Bureau of Criminal Apprehension, police responded to the Hoffman home at around 2 a.m. after the shooting occurred. As officers made their way to check on Hortman, they encountered the suspect at her home just after 3:30 a.m., exiting the house in police-like attire. A gunfight followed, but the suspect managed to flee on foot.

A vehicle resembling a police cruiser—complete with flashing lights—was found at Hortman’s home. Inside was a list of political targets, including both Hortman and Hoffman, along with other prominent Minnesota Democrats like Gov. Walz, U.S. Rep. Ilhan Omar, Sen. Tina Smith, and Attorney General Keith Ellison.

Investigators are exploring whether the attacker was driven by extremist beliefs, potentially related to abortion.

“This horrific violence will not be tolerated,” said President Donald Trump in a statement through Press Secretary Karoline Leavitt. Attorney General Pam Bondi echoed the sentiment, promising prosecution to the fullest extent of the law.

The Capitol Police have increased security for officials on the target list and are working with other agencies to locate the gunman. A shelter-in-place order remains in effect in Brooklyn Park. Residents have been advised not to open their doors for anyone claiming to be law enforcement unless verified by a 911 dispatcher.

Speaker of the House Mike Johnson condemned the violence, as did Democratic National Committee Chair Ken Martin, who expressed deep sorrow over the loss of his close friend, Hortman.

“She was someone I personally relied on for advice, counsel, and friendship… the very best Speaker of the House that Minnesota has ever had,” Martin said. “If this murderer thinks we will be silenced, he’s wrong.”

Governor Walz has urged Minnesotans to avoid political events until the suspect is found. The investigation remains ongoing.

Ananda Lewis, Former MTV VJ, Has Died at 52

A Voice of a Generation: MTV VJ, Talk Show Host, and Breast Cancer Advocate Remembered

Ananda Lewis, the trailblazing former MTV VJ and host who became a household name in the late ’90s and early 2000s, has died at 52. Her sister, Lakshmi Emory, confirmed the news in a heartfelt Facebook post. No further details about her passing have been made public. Lewis had been living with breast cancer for several years and revealed in late 2023 that the disease had progressed to stage IV.

A Public Battle with Breast Cancer

Lewis first shared her diagnosis in 2020, explaining she discovered her stage III breast cancer through a self-exam. At the time, she admitted she had delayed getting mammograms out of fear of radiation exposure — a decision she later urged others not to repeat.

“I need you to share this with the women in your life who may be as stubborn as I was about mammograms,” she said in her video announcement. “Early detection, especially for breast cancer, changes your outcome. It can save their life.”

Courtesy of Ananda Lewis | ESSENCE
Courtesy of Ananda Lewis | ESSENCE

Despite her diagnosis, Lewis initially opted for alternative treatments and rejected a double mastectomy, believing her body could heal itself through detoxification, better nutrition, and lifestyle changes. “I decided to keep my tumor and try to work it out of my body a different way,” she told CNN. Looking back, she admitted: “Maybe I should have [followed the doctors’ advice].”

Her health briefly improved with a mix of homeopathic remedies, medical treatment, and lifestyle changes, but by last year, the cancer had metastasized. “It was the first time I ever had a conversation with death,” Lewis shared in her interview with CNN. “Because I felt like: This is how it is.”

From ‘Teen Summit’ to MTV Royalty

Lewis began her rise in media as the host of BET’s Teen Summit, a show focused on the social issues facing young Black Americans. Her passion for youth advocacy and media representation began long before her MTV fame — inspired by her work with the Youth Leadership and Development Institute (YLDI), where she trained teenagers in a program called “Youth at Risk.”

“The kids in my program were like, ‘You have to go for that audition,’” she said in a 2022 BET interview. “They were calling me a hypocrite. I’m grateful that I went and listened.”

She hosted Teen Summit for three seasons, interviewing icons from Hillary Clinton to Kobe Bryant. That success launched her into the mainstream, and in 1997 she joined MTV — eventually becoming one of the most recognizable VJs of her time, appearing on Total Request Live, Hot Zone, and MTV Live.

Beyond the Camera: Advocacy and Joy

Even at the height of her fame, Lewis remained grounded in activism. After the Columbine school shooting, she helped moderate forums on youth violence. In 1999, she hosted the powerful MTV News special True Life: I Am Driving While Black, continuing to use her platform for social awareness.

After MTV, she hosted The Ananda Lewis Show, which ran from 2001–2002, and later worked as a correspondent for CBS’s The Insider. She also made appearances on shows like Celebrity Mole: Yucatán and America’s Top Dog.

In her final years, Lewis reflected deeply on the changes cancer brought to her life. “The cancer diagnosis caused me to change things in my life I never would have changed otherwise,” she said. “Those changes have allowed me access to more of my joy, more of the time.”

A Final Message: “Prevention Is the Real Cure”

Ananda Lewis used her voice not just to entertain, but to educate — especially Black women, whom she encouraged to take their health seriously and prioritize early screenings.

“My message is prevention,” she said. “Because prevention is the real cure.”

She may be gone, but Lewis leaves behind a legacy of truth-telling, joy, and purpose — one that shaped culture and saved lives.

Father’s Day, FREE COSA Fun, & Celebrating Juneteenth: This Week In San Antonio

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There’s Lots To Celebrate As Pride, Juneteenth, and Father’s Day Take Center Stage

Now that the last school bells have rung, it’s officially time to dive into summer. Across San Antonio, the city has plenty of activities – all free or low-cost.

And with Father’s Day this Sunday, it’s the perfect time to treat Dad (or any father figure) to a festival, parade, or just some quality family time out in the city.

Whether you’re dropping the kids at summer camp, browsing a vendor at Juneteenth, or planning something special for Father’s Day — this week’s calendar is packed with ways to show up, cool off, and celebrate all across the city.

Here’s what’s happening:

FREE Events This Week: June 12-19

Thursday, June 13

Free Soccer Clinic with San Antonio Athenians
📍 Wheatley Heights Sports Complex | 6–8 PM
Ages 8–16 | All skill levels welcome

Juneteenth Film Screening: “Black Is… Black Ain’t”
📍 The Little Carver | 6–8:30 PM, Doors open at 5:30 PM

“Black Is…Black Ain’t” celebrates the richness of Black identity while confronting the pain of exclusion — whether for being “not Black enough” or “too Black.” The film offers a powerful critique of sexism, patriarchy, homophobia, colorism, and cultural nationalism within Black families, churches, and institutions.

Stick around after the screening for a dynamic panel discussion. Presented in partnership with Humanities Texas.

Free admission with required registration. See more HERE.

Friday, June 14

Pride Resource Fair
📍 Berta Almaguer Dance Studio | 11 AM – 3 PM
Health resources, community vibes, and giveaways

Juneteenth Farmers Market
📍 Gardopia Gardens | 6–9 PM
Live music, local vendors, giveaways, and food

Big Lou’s Blood Drive
📍 Big Lou’s Pizza, 2048 S. W.W. White Rd | 11 AM – 7 PM
Big Lou’s Pizza is hosting a community blood drive on June 14 in honor of founder “Pops” Lujan.

Donate blood between 11 AM – 7 PM at 2048 S. W.W. White Rd and receive a free 20” pizza, commemorative T-shirt, and Valero gas card while supplies last. For more, visit their website.

Juneteenth Parade
📍 Starts at Sam Houston High School | 9 AM
Ends at Comanche Park #2

2025 Juneteenth Festival
📍 Comanche Park #2, 2600 Rigsby Ave. | Starts at 9 AM
Live entertainment, food, vendors, and family fun

Sunday, June 15

Juneteenth Party in the Park
📍 Pittman-Sullivan Park | 6–8 PM
Enjoy live music from DJ Rhythm and Beats, family-friendly games and activities, and delicious eats from local food trucks. Come out for the food, the fun, and the fellowship!

Market Square
📍 514 W. Commerce St. | 10 AM – 6 PM
Every weekend enjoy live music, artisan vendors, food booths, and more.

Monday, June 16

Dance Camp Session 1 Begins – Runs through July 3
📍 Berta Almaguer Dance Studio | 9:15 AM – 12:45 PM
Ages 13–17 | Jazz, hip-hop, ballet, and more

Paddle & Play Youth Camp Begins– Runs through June 27
📍 Fairchild Park | Mon–Thurs
Ages 8–14 | Tennis & pickleball camp

Tuesday, June 17

Senior Swim Begins
📍 Kingsborough Park Pool
Tuesdays & Thursdays | Ages 60+
📅 June 17 – August 7

Wednesday, June 19 (Juneteenth)

SAAACAM Green Book Civil Rights Bus Tour
📍 Departs from 3501 Avenue B | Morning departure
2.5-hour historic East Side tour highlighting Black-owned Green Book sites
Free parking included | Registration required

TVC Juneteenth Festival + Fireworks Display
📍 True Vision Church, 2826 Ackerman Rd | 7 – 9 PM
Live performances and fireworks close out Juneteenth week. For more information, click HERE.

Abbott Deploys National Guard to San Antonio, Mayor Nirenberg Speaks Out

The Move Comes Ahead of a Planned Protest in San Antonio and Follows Days of Protests in L.A.

Texas Governor Greg Abbott announced the deployment of National Guard troops across the state, including San Antonio, ahead of a wave of planned protests targeting U.S. Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) and the Trump administration. The move comes just days after similar protests erupted in Los Angeles, prompting a local curfew and raising tensions nationwide.

“Peaceful protest is legal. Harming a person or property is illegal & will lead to arrest,” Abbott wrote on X late Tuesday. “@TexasGuard will use every tool & strategy to help law enforcement maintain order.”

Protests Sparked by ICE Courtroom Arrests

The demonstrations were triggered by a series of arrests in which ICE agents reportedly detained migrants immediately after their immigration court cases were dismissed in San Antonio. On Sunday, a peaceful protest took place downtown in response, according to Spectrum News 1. But more protests are expected as backlash grows.

The San Antonio Police Department confirmed it is coordinating with National Guard troops deployed to the city. Local law enforcement is preparing for additional demonstrations expected downtown on Wednesday evening.

Saturday Protest Marks Trump’s Birthday With ‘No Kings Day’

Tensions are set to rise further this weekend with a large anti-Trump protest planned for Saturday—President Trump’s birthday. Dubbed “No Kings Day,” the protest is organized by a coalition that includes the 50501 Movement, Bexar County Democratic Party, the Party for Socialism and Liberation, Indivisible, and Women’s March. It’s part of a national wave of coordinated protests challenging Trump’s immigration crackdowns and use of force.

San Antonio Mayor Ron Nirenberg and local police are expected to hold a press conference today to outline safety measures and the city’s protest response strategy.

Statewide and National Response Intensifies

Across Texas, demonstrations have already escalated. On Monday night in Austin, 500 protesters rallied in front of the Capitol in solidarity with the Los Angeles protests. State and local authorities used pepper spray and flash-bang grenades, leading to over a dozen arrests, according to Abbott.

Meanwhile, California is locked in a political clash of its own. After Trump federalized the National Guard in Los Angeles—over Governor Gavin Newsom’s objections—California’s attorney general filed a lawsuit claiming the president’s actions overstepped his authority.

Trump remained unapologetic, calling the protests “a disaster” and praising the heavy force response. “We stopped a disaster,” he said from the Oval Office. “We did a great job. They were met with heavy force, and they folded.”

What’s Next for San Antonio

With state troops on the ground and city officials on alert, all eyes are on San Antonio. Whether the protests remain peaceful or face the kind of escalated enforcement seen in L.A. and Austin remains to be seen. What’s clear: the national conversation around immigration, protest rights, and presidential power is far from over.

“Bexar County Showed Up and Showed Out!” -Mayor Elect Gina Ortiz Jones

Gina Wins It: San Antonio Elects First LGBTQ+, Asian-American Woman Mayor

Gina Ortiz Jones has been elected the next mayor of San Antonio, defeating Republican Rolando Pablos in the June 7 runoff with 54.3% of the vote to his 45.7%.

Jones, a Democrat and former Under Secretary of the Air Force, becomes the city’s first openly gay mayor and one of the few women ever to lead the nation’s seventh-largest city.

She advanced to the June 7 runoff after the May 3 general election and defeated Pablos by nine points. Once sworn in, she will make history as the first Asian-American woman to lead a major Texas city, San Antonio’s first LGBTQ+ mayor, and the first woman in Texas with military combat experience to serve as mayor. She is also the first San Antonio mayor since 2005 elected without having served on City Council.

Mayor Elect Gina Ortiz Jones

Raised in San Antonio, Jones is the daughter of a public school teacher and a proud graduate of John Jay High School. She earned an Air Force ROTC scholarship, served in the Iraq War, and rose to become the second-highest-ranking civilian in the Air Force and Space Force.

“I am very thankful for the opportunity to be able to serve with everybody in mind,” Jones said in her victory speech. “Y’all, we won tonight, we won tonight” She added, “Bexar County showed up and showed out!”.

Gina Ortiz Jones wins Runoff Mayoral Election San Antonio
Instagram @ginaortizjonestx

Over 112,000 voters participated in the runoff—an increase from the May general election. Jones received strong support across central and eastern precincts, while Pablos led in far-north and westside areas.

Pablos, a former Texas Secretary of State, had close ties to Governor Greg Abbott and received substantial support from politically aligned conservative donors and PACs. Those ties, however, may have worked against him, as more and more San Antonio voters have grown frustrated with Abbott’s influence and the policies coming out of Austin. The outcome sent a strong signal that local voters are weary of state-level interference in city affairs.

Ortiz Jones and the newly elected City Council will be sworn in during the “Mayor and City Council Blessing” at San Fernando Cathedral on June 18, a longstanding tradition marking the formal start of their terms in office.

A Brother Remembered: The Life and Legacy of James L. Howard

Rest In Peace For A Job Well Done

Within the existence of the human condition, we have the ability to recognize that our condition is fraught with frailties, some of which are overlooked and some that are hardly recognized or addressed.

Among the aforementioned frailties is the existence of our final days. Over this past week, I had to acknowledge the untimely passing, of a long time friend and Fraternity Brother – James L. Howard, after his battle with a terminal illness.

I first came to know James, during the period when he was pursuing his membership into the Psi Alpha Chapter, of the Omega Psi Phi Fraternity, Incorporated, which he successfully completed, and was initiated in March of 1971. I, myself, had been previously initiated, into Omega Psi Phi, in December of 1970, at Prairie View A & M.

James L. Howard
James L. Howard

At time of his initiation, James was completing his studies, at St. Philip’s College and went on to attend Prairie View, where he completed his education, receiving a Bachelor’s of Arts, in Music Education. Our attendance at Prairie View, even though it happened to be at different times, was another aspect of a great friendship.

Upon returning, to San Antonio, around 1973, we made it our mission to vigorously seek gainful employment, beginning in late 1973, as I had worked at a local youth agency, from 1972 to 1973.

In July of 1974, we both were hired, by the recreation unit, at Fort Sam Houston, to work evenings, weekends and holidays, at the Music Center and the Hacienda Recreation Center, respectively. Those were great experiences.

James L. Howard (L) with Omega Brothers
James L. Howard (L) with Omega Brothers

Later on, Bro. Howard began work at Eloise Japhet Elementary, in the San Antonio Independent School District, which was to become a wonderful stepping stone in his career, as an education advocate and as a champion of the community’s needs as well as the needs of parents, students and staff members.

James became president of the Paraprofessional Employees, which led to his being tagged, for a position with the American Federation of Teachers. Mr. Howard was to run later, in 1988, against Tom Gaffney, for the position of District 2 Trustee, with the San Antonio Independent School District, which he ultimately won.

That was a major win for my friend, who went on to “represent District 2 for twenty years, defended teachers while a member of the AFT”, per a partial social media post from former City Councilman Mario Salas. In his serving, James was active as follows:
Church Clerk and Trustee (Friendship Baptist Church) Member Bexar Appraisal Review Board Member Denver Heights Executive Board.

Over all of these years, and at different times, I witnessed my friend’s growth, dedication and maturity, on display. We attended many Saturday morning Prayer breakfasts, early evening campaign events and sought to have a positive impact in the same community where he grew up.

I will always fondly remember my experience with James, during the time his mother had passed. I knew I had to go and offer my condolences,but I feared going, thinking that I wouldn’t know what to say. I summoned the courage to get there, and upon entering the room, he called for everyone to be silent and said,

“Here he comes – my best friend! I knew he was coming, but, I just didn’t know when he would get here!”

From that point, I found that the status, as a good or a best friend, was truly a treasure and one to forever behold.

Rest In Peace, My Good Brother and Friend.

Judge Ron Rangel Explores Bexar County District Attorney Run

Longtime Criminal Court Judge Weighs Bid for District Attorney

Judge Ron Rangel has announced the formation of an exploratory committee as he considers a campaign for Bexar County District Attorney. After nearly two decades on the bench, Rangel is weighing whether to take the next step in public service.

“Having served as a Criminal District Court Judge for the past 17 years, I have a deep understanding of our justice system,” said Rangel. “And I know the hard work it takes to keep our community safe.”

The exploratory committee will focus on fundraising and measuring support for a possible run. Donation information is expected to be released in the coming weeks, with contributions starting as early as next month.

A Judge with Deep Roots in Justice and Community

First elected to the 379th District Court in 2008, Judge Ron Rangel has served continuously ever since. During his tenure, he’s been appointed twice as Bexar County’s Local Administrative Judge and three times as the Criminal District Court Administrative Judge.

Rangel earned a history degree from St. Mary’s University before working as a caseworker for Child Protective Services. He later graduated from St. Mary’s School of Law and began his legal career as a prosecutor in Hidalgo County. Today, in addition to serving on the bench, Rangel is a Professor of Practice at UTSA and hosts the podcast Beyond the Gavel, which aims to educate the public on the legal system.

Juneteenth 2025: Events Scheduled Across Bexar County

2025 Juneteenth Events

Multiple Juneteenth events are scheduled throughout Bexar County in June 2025, offering residents opportunities to observe and participate in community gatherings recognizing the historic Emancipation Day.

Juneteenth, which commemorates the end of slavery in the United States, has been celebrated in Bexar County since 1866. In 2020, it was officially recognized as a county-wide holiday. This year’s events include a mix of cultural programming, community markets, and public festivals.

Scheduled Events:

Thursday, June 13
SAAACAM’s Juneteenth Black History Film Series
Film: “Black Is… Black Ain’t”
6:00 PM – 8:30 PM | The Little Carver

“Black Is…Black Ain’t” rejoices in Black diversity, but many bare their pain at having been silenced or excluded because they were perceived as “not Black enough” or conversely “too Black.” Black Is…Black Ain’t marshals a powerful critique of sexism, patriarchy, homophobia, colorism and cultural nationalism in the Black family, church and other Black institutions. Registration required HERE.

Friday, June 14
Juneteenth Farmers Market

6:00 PM – 9:00 PM | Gardopia Gardens (Nolan Street)

This special event will feature live entertainment, local vendors, giveaways, and delicious food samples, creating a vibrant community atmosphere. Parking will be available in the adjacent lot from Gardopia and off Nolan Street. General admission is free,

Saturday, June 14
Juneteenth Parade
| Sam Houston High School
9:00 AM

The parade begins at Sam Houston High School at 4635 E. Houston St., San Antonio, TX. 78220, and ends at Comanche Park #2.

Saturday, June 14
Juneteenth Festival

9:00 AM – 10:00 PM | Comanche Park No. 2

In 1996, the first Juneteenth Celebration was held at the Freeman Coliseum and featured local bands and entertainment. Future festivals have been held at the Carver Cultural Center and St. Paul Square. However, for the past 20+years, the festival has found a home at Comanche Park No. 2. Through the tireless efforts of the Commission, volunteers and community organizers, the Juneteenth Festival has grown to be a favorite venue for family reunions and the community. This year is no exception.

Sunday, June 15
Party in the Park

6:00 PM – 8:00 PM | Pittman-Sullivan Park
(Proceeds to benefit the Davis Scott YMCA)

This party features music by DJ Rhythm and Beats. Indulge in games, and activities designed for the entire family. Also experience mouth-watering food selections from local food truck vendors. Come join us for the food, the fun, and the fellowship!!

Wednesday, June 19 (Juneteenth)
TVC Juneteenth Festival and Fireworks Display

7:00 PM – 9:00 PM | True Vision Church, 2826 Ackerman Rd, San Antonio

Come together with your neighbors, family, and friends for an unforgettable evening filled with the vibrant sounds of live music that will lift your spirits. Feel the rhythm and move your feet with exciting line dances that everyone can enjoy!

Treat your taste buds to delicious eats from a variety of food trucks offering tasty bites for every craving. This is an outdoor event, so come ready to enjoy the fresh air and good company. As the night culminates, prepare to be dazzled by a spectacular fireworks display that will light up the sky in a vibrant celebration of our freedom!

These events are organized by various community organizations and are open to the public. For more information and for ticketed events visit HERE.

Black Fatigue is Really ‘White Fatigue’

White Fatigue Is Real—And I’m Tired of It

With all the Elon and Trump drama, we already knew what that was as I’ve been writing about this clan for a minute. Though this week, let’s talk about a different kind of exhaustion. Not theirs—ours.

“Black fatigue” is real. It’s the emotional, mental, and generational toll of navigating a world built on racism. It was coined by Black folks, for Black folks, to name the weight of surviving racism—not reacting to it. But now, here come non-Black folks flipping the script like it was theirs to begin with.

Y’all invented racism, upheld it, benefited from it, yet they still have the nerve to deflect their behaviors when folks call it out. That’s not fatigue, that’s white privilege —and instead of dealing with it, they flip the narrative.

Should you wonder where all this is coming from, a few weeks ago a TikToker went viral after using the term “Black fatigue” to justify a white woman calling a Black child the n-word.

Her claim? “We” are tired of “ghetto behavior.” She called it “hoodrattery,” “animalistic,” and acted like she was speaking for all of society. And it was exactly what white supremacy does—steal, distort, and deflect.

What’s worse is some in our own community co-signed the nonsense. That’s the crabs-in-a-bucket effect—residue of slavery, where we were trained to fight each other instead of the system. But let’s be clear: whether you were a field or house slave, you were still a slave. And fueling this narrative as a black person is counterintuitive as you only negate your own existence as a human being.

If You’re Tired of the Conversation, Stop Being the Cause

So let’s flip it back: You’re tired of Black people? I’m tired of non-black people inventing racism, enforcing it, and then playing victim when there’s a response. That’s not fatigue. That’s white privilege. And instead of fixing the issue, you hijack our language and cry reverse discrimination like it’s a valid argument.

If you’re sick of hearing about racism, here’s a radical idea: stop being racist. Be fair and kind to everyone. It’s not that hard.